It's fall and pumpkins!

Fall has arrived, in full force. It went from temps in the 80's, down to the 60's in the space of a week. It's been great. I love fall clothes, and Halloween just doesn't feel like Halloween without that nip in the air. Of course, I have memories of my own childhood, going trick or treating with a snowsuit on under my costume. this year, Ann will maybe.. just maybe, wear a light shirt under hers.

We went to the good ol pumpkin patch on Saturday, letting Anna pick out an Anna sized pumpkin, since we already had our big one, and paying 15 bucks for a pumpkin is kinda silly.. SHe had a fantastic time, walking through all the pumpkins and the mums and the gourds.
We went out to the rayle Ramble afterwards, to see Jim and Karan. On our arrival, getting out of the car, Jamie turned to me and said, " Do you hear that?" I replied yes, some guy was singing. It was Jim!! I had no idea he had that incredible and strong of a voice.

The Rable, was just a small outdoor bazaar type thing. It had homeade baking goodies, vrious knicknacks and a couple concessions. There was a kids train going through out, but Anna was playing shy, and didn't want to go on. She did wave every time it went by though!

We've had a few challenging nights lately. She hasn't been sleeping well at all. Shadows are starting to scare her , and we are at our wits end on what to do. She has a nightlight, 4 friends that sleep with her, a special butterfly that keeps the bad dreams away. I'm hoping she will just get over it, and back on a decent sleep schedule, argh. It's hard though.

We are through our terrible 2 pahse for the most part. She gets snotty and defiant when she's very tired, or really worked up, but for the most part she is back to being her sweet fun loving self again.. thank god. I wasn't sure how much more of it I could take! Hopefully Jamie will get some pictures off his camera for me, but here are a few for now!

Happy 5th Anniversary

I'm a little late posting on this, but it's been quite crazy the fast few days between being sick, and bad news, however the 18th was our 5th anniversary.

I woke up, remembering waking up at 6:45am, and thinking "This is it. Today I am marrying the most perfect man in the world." The day rushed by, between make-up and hair appointments, trying to find time to eat, and a limo ride with my Dad. Finally, we stood, and the look on his face, as he saw me walking toward him will live forever etched in my memory. The ceremony performed by my new father in law, pictures in Polson Park, then my fabulous reception. There were some sad moments, with some family drama, and some regrets, but it was an amazing day. A long day, but an amazing day.

Now here we are 5 years later, 5000 miles away from there, our house, cars, daughter. He isn't a perfect man,as I am sure he has learned I am not a perfect woman, but he is perfect for me. We have our up, we have our downs. The better, the worse, richer and poorer, but our love is a constant, keeping us entwined. To my darling husband, I love you, and thank you for you.

Happy Birthday, here's some puff.

Happy Birthday to me! Yes, I admit it, I'm getting older. As a treat for myself, I decided to get a haircut. Anna was at her MDO, so I had a spare 4 hours. One of the salon/day spas was having a special, " Cut for the Cause" day, you could go in and donate 10 bucks to breast cancer research and get your hair cut. Can't beat that!

Now a little bit of background, for the past 10 months, I have had short hair. In all the times I have gotten it cut, I have never ever had a cut I loved. Once it grows out, I like it, but the first week or so just pretty much sucks.

So , Cut For A Cause, well established day spa/ salon, me and my hair. I sit in the chair, admiring how beautiful the salon is, the energy, how much I love the sights, the smells and miss it. The stylist comes over, drapes the cape. I explain what I want, and she begins to wet it down. I listen to the stylist and lady across from me chatting a bit, and hear the client say " So you guys are students?'

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Students, who in fact, upon some conversations with my own stylist, are about 50% finished their course, who this is the first time for them cutting real hair, instead of a mannequin, who are cutting my hair, my short hair.

Sigh. So I decided hey, it can't be any worse then the cuts that I have already had. She's a student, she needs the practice, it'll grow out. I only winced a little bit when she caught my ear with the scissors, looked slightly interested as she took the razor out and thinned out my hair. we chatted about things she will be doing once she graduates, and my fears of looking old.

An hour later, I left, happy that I was able to donate for such a great cause. However, I now had.. puffy southern middle age woman hair. The top of my hair sits approximately 4 inches off my head, and the upper back is about 3.4 inches high. It's great. Simply f'ing wonderful.

A wise woman once told me, the difference between a good and bad haircut, is 2 weeks. One week to go!

Fall has arrived!

Today is rainy, wet, dark and cold. For me, those things together make it a great fall day. For those of you not in the South, things down here are different, especially seasons. For example, Spring is marked.. not by flowers, but by yellow snow.. pollen. When it rains, rivers of yellow travel through the streets. You can't keep up with it, ( believe me I've tried) and do not under any circumstances keep any windows open!!!

Laura Not to mention any names, but it's just impossible to enjoy that lovely Spring breeze down here at that time.


Back to Fall, glorious fall. It's finally cooling off, getting below 80 ( high 20's) to a very nice comfortable outside enjoyable temperature. The leaves are finally starting to change, yes.. just now starting. Halloween is around the corner. I have my fall wreath on my door up. YesI have a fall wreath, it was a gift. Anna and I have been some great fall crafts as well, making wreaths out of handprints, and fall garlands to hang around the house.
We are eagerly waiting on Halloween now. Anna has decided this year, we will keep the insect theme going ( last year was a ladybug) and this year she has chosen a bumblebee to be her costume, and Mommy's too. Right. So much for just pulling out the witch hat.

We are also dong remarkably well with staying out of the Halloween candy. Last year by this time, we had made our way through about 4 bags so far. That's not sharing with Anna. Man, we suck, and I wondered where the extra 5 inches on my ass came from.

Gifts from a father

We are finally getting over our colds, and able to go pretty much clear and free of any of those medicines that make a cold somewhat bearable. However along with getting better, things dry up.. like snot.. in noses. I picked Anna up from school on Thursday, got her strapped in her car seat, where she proudly exclaimed, " Mommy I pickin' my nose!". I totally blame her father.

Tears and ponies

So after getting over my last cold, I managed about 3 days healthy, trying to get cleaning caught up and got sick again. Seriously, this preschool thing sucks for germs. Time to get out the lysol!

Anna is going through a phase right now, of complete independence and defiance. In short, she's driving me insane. She has her moments of unbelievable adorableness, and then in a flash, she turns into this little 3 foot ball of tears and snot and angst. I feel like I'm describing myself at 15. We're so screwed in ten years.

The Anna isms this week include " I mean it Mommy" when telling me she wants something.
Upon throwing a ball just out of reach, " Maybe I can get it!" then leaping up and snatching up the ball and holding it high in the air, exclaiming "I got it!!"

She also loves playing on our computers, whether it's on her Learning Game, or just clicking away on the keyboard while using the mouse in her right hand. It's pretty darn cute when she puts on my headset while she's at it.

One of our favorite activities though, is just spending time together, and painting our nails. She loves to have her toenails and fingernails painted to look "beautiful". She also loves getting into my makeup, and plying with various hair clips. She is most definatly a girly girl.

She is on a Curious George kick right now, loving anything to do with him. it's one of the very few movies that can hold her attention for more then 15 minutes. She's also loving Elmo, Dora and Backyardigans, and a new recent discovery, my Little Pony. Boy does that bring back memories. I have to be honest, when she decided that she liked MLP, I had flashbacks from my own childhood, and wanted to try and find other shows that I watched as a child. After about 2 hours, I realized that the quality, somehow impossibly was less then stellar, and not what I remembered from my own childhood. But boy oh boy, I sure enjoyed the She-Ra episodes I found on youtube.